I must say that I am not sure if they will work but that I am willing to try anything at this point.
As once again last night I took him outside to play and he was doing really good and I turn my back for one second and he says something and sets my neighbor off who decides to take her grandson in because he is "Not going to learn to talk to people the way Charlie does".
Now mind you I am not sure what she said to Charlie to set him off or what he said to set her off.
As when I tried to talk to her she ignored me as well.
So I brought Charlie upstairs and asked him and he said something about his bike but trying to get a 4 year old to tell you what happened is not always easy.
So I talked to him and he decided to go down to tell her he was sorry.
He had gone done earlier and she would not listen.
So trying again to me was wonderful.
This time his dad went with him and David says she was on the phone and they waited and she would not get off.
Finally she does and David tries to talk to her and she ignores him as well.
So they come upstairs.
By this time they are both frustrated.
So I decide to take Charlie out to the picnic table to play cards and low and behold Judy is out there and talks to me and Charlie like nothing happened.
I know this confused me so it must confuse him too.
So she ask me if I am coming out at 4:30 to help her with her grandson Nat but that she would prefer Charlie not to come out.
Now he Loves Nat and thinks he is his best friend.
How am I supposed to leave my son inside to help her?
David tells me not to go down.
But I had said I would before this happened.
What would you do?
Would you take Charlie with you?
This is why I am going to have him play these games with me this morning to get his mind off yesterday and see if I can get him to talk to me about what happened and what he needs to do.
I do want to take him outside today but hate knowing people do not want my son around and I am to the point I just do not know what to do.
Can you help me?
Good Behavior Games for Preschoolers
As once again last night I took him outside to play and he was doing really good and I turn my back for one second and he says something and sets my neighbor off who decides to take her grandson in because he is "Not going to learn to talk to people the way Charlie does".
Now mind you I am not sure what she said to Charlie to set him off or what he said to set her off.
As when I tried to talk to her she ignored me as well.
So I brought Charlie upstairs and asked him and he said something about his bike but trying to get a 4 year old to tell you what happened is not always easy.
So I talked to him and he decided to go down to tell her he was sorry.
He had gone done earlier and she would not listen.
So trying again to me was wonderful.
This time his dad went with him and David says she was on the phone and they waited and she would not get off.
Finally she does and David tries to talk to her and she ignores him as well.
So they come upstairs.
By this time they are both frustrated.
So I decide to take Charlie out to the picnic table to play cards and low and behold Judy is out there and talks to me and Charlie like nothing happened.
I know this confused me so it must confuse him too.
So she ask me if I am coming out at 4:30 to help her with her grandson Nat but that she would prefer Charlie not to come out.
Now he Loves Nat and thinks he is his best friend.
How am I supposed to leave my son inside to help her?
David tells me not to go down.
But I had said I would before this happened.
What would you do?
Would you take Charlie with you?
This is why I am going to have him play these games with me this morning to get his mind off yesterday and see if I can get him to talk to me about what happened and what he needs to do.
I do want to take him outside today but hate knowing people do not want my son around and I am to the point I just do not know what to do.
Can you help me?
Good Behavior Games for Preschoolers
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