David and his Childhood friends!!

   

Friends Forever!!!

Most people do not keep in touch with the people they went to school with. But David is different. He is still friends with all of his Best Friends from school. Which can be strange. As we all went to school together.


                                

  So I was friends with them all as well. Hank Deweese is on the left with his wife. Right before he moved out of State I dated him for a little bit. Does David know? I am not sure. Will I tell David? I am not sure.

As  for Ed he was the ultimate cowboy. The bad guy!! I wanted to marry a Cowboy someday I told my mom and I also most did!! Only we ended up breaking up as we was too young to get Married. Do I regret it? No, as he was hooked on drugs as the time and it was not something I needed to deal with, But he always was good to me.


     
       

Then there is Richard and he and I have been best friends since we was 16 years old, Have we ever dated? No!!! Would we?? No. I do not want to. But he does as he has always "LOVED" me. But he is just my friend. He was there when my daughter was killed. His parents have always helped me. We buried his parents together, his brother and my daughter. I can and have told him anything. If I need anything he would do what ever I need.

As for him and David they have the same kind of friendship but if Richard had to chose between us for any reason he would chose me. He has moved out of State to and even though we chat on the phone and Facebook it is not the same. I would like for him to move home.

So since David does not like the computer and can not read or write the guys are all on my Facebook page and we chat a lot. In the last month Ed and I have talked almost everyday. He is back in his childhood home which I was in and out of a lot as a child.

Ed is a plumber and last night we needed someone to look at my sisters restroom and I called him and he was ready to drop everything and come help me out. Once we was done we went and hung out in his backyard. Did it feel weird? In a way it did. But then it also felt like normal as I have always  known if I needed anything and he was around he would do it.

So today I would like to thank God for these special men he put into my life.

Glenda, Charlie and David Cates 

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Is there ever a day when you just would like to run away???

 

Today is that day for me. I am having the worst most frustrated day ever. I just want to scream and in a apartment that can not be done. So I think I will ask Santa if he would buy me this little house and I can take my work and go in there and hide. I am going to put a do not disturb sign on the doors. This way I can work and not be yelled at every two minutes. As I just went off on Charlie for something so stupid as I was having problems with work and instead of getting up and walking away I stayed at the computer and just kept getting more and more frustrated until I blew up at Charlie and it was not even his fault. I am so so sorry Charlie and I Love you more than anything. I know I can not take the yelling at you back but I can say I am sorry and I am.

Love, Mommy

With the attitude Charlie has been having lately I found these games called Good Behavior Games for Preschoolers

I must say that I am not sure if they will work but that I am willing to try anything at this point.

 As once again last night I took him outside to play and he was doing really good and I turn my back for one second and he says something and sets my neighbor off who decides to take her grandson in because he is "Not going to learn to talk to people the way Charlie does".

Now mind you I am not sure what she said to Charlie to set him off or what he said to set her off.

As when I tried to talk to her she ignored me as well.

So I brought Charlie upstairs and asked him and he said something about his bike but trying to get a 4 year old to tell you what happened is not always easy.

So I talked to him and he decided to go down to tell her he was sorry.

 He had gone done earlier and she would not listen.

So trying again to me was wonderful.

This time his dad went with him and David says she was on the phone and they waited and she would not get off.

Finally she does and David tries to talk to her and she ignores him as well.

So they come upstairs.

By this time they are both frustrated.

So I decide to take Charlie out to the picnic table to play cards and low and behold Judy is out there and talks to me and Charlie like nothing happened.

 I know this confused me so it must confuse him too.

So she ask me if I am coming out at 4:30 to help her with her grandson Nat but that she would prefer Charlie not to come out.

 Now he Loves Nat and thinks he is his best friend.

 How am I supposed to leave my son inside to help her?

David tells me not to go down.

 But I had said I would before this happened.

What would you do?

Would you take Charlie with you?

This is why I am going to have him play these games with me this morning to get his mind off yesterday and see if I can get him to talk to me about what happened and what he needs to do.

 I do want to  take him outside today but hate knowing people do not want my son around and I am to the point I just do not know what to do.

 Can you help me?

Good Behavior Games for Preschoolers

~Today is the 7th day of the Blog Challenge/Dare~

Today is the 7th day of the Blog Challenge/Dare:

I would like to tell you about my first day of high school

I had to ride the bus as I was not a Cool kid and  did not have a car.

Nor did any of my friends.

So I trudge to the bus stop in 6 inch heels and slacks that where still

to long thinking I looked oh so sexy.

Low and Behold it starts to rain.

My hair falls that I worked so hard that morning to fix.

My makeup runs and I end up at school looking like a drowned rat.

Did I become popular oh no not I.

All I ended up with was being laughed at.

Then I met a boy and think where friends and he stuffs me in a trashcan.

Where I am not able to get out.

Would I live my first day of high school over again.

Most likely not but the guy and I became best friends and still are and I am

now married to his best friend so in the end it all worked out.

Now tell me about your first day of high school.

Come on don't be shy.