Saturday, July 30, 2011

A MOMent with... Paws Party


Paws Party, LLC started in May 2010. We have been in business for one year now and it is our own personal business.


I started the business after making homemade treats for our rescue dog, Shadow. Shadow is a huge black Labrador Retriever who was abused and scheduled to be put down. We rescued him and he is our pet and is much loved. We made him some homemade dog treats called “Flea B Gones” that help keep the fleas away. After getting laid off from my job I got involved with an MLM company but soon found that I could not ask people to pay the high prices of some of these products. My husband and I realized that if we make Shadow treats we can do for others. So after this I decided to form my own company and started making homemade doggie treats at prices that are more reasonable to the pocketbook of dog owners. We make the dog treats right out of our own kitchen , which is located in Jackson, NJ. One day we will have the storefront that is pictured in our heads; but for now, our kitchen will do.

The treats are made with tender loving care by my husband and myself. Actually, I give all the cooking credit to my husband. He is the cook. I am the creativity, sales and marketing person. I come up with the ideas and he puts them into action.

Our best seller is our pupcakes. It is similar to a cupcake but only for dogs. They are small and round and come in six different varieis. We have blueberry, banana, apple, sweet potatoe, brownie and carrot. I wanted to take something to a party that had a little more substance to it than a cookie. While making cupcakes one day I decided why not? Let’s do “Pup”cakes and let the doggies get involved in the events. In the meantime, by “cook” my husband does the bacon bonez and the blueberry treats! He loves blueberries and gives one to our dog every morning. We also perfected a Hambarker and hot Dawg for the summer barbque months for our furry friends!

Paws Party decided to advertise pet parties. Some of our customers were interested and so we decided why not cater for their events. If you decide you want to Party with your pet call Paws Party, LLC and we will make you a cake for your dog (the size of how many four legged doggies are coming); as well as doggie treat bags and party favors with balloons for your event. We don’t stay, we just do the catering part for you. The rest is up to you. The other aspect of our parties is having a “Pupperware” Party. Paws Party will come to your house just like Avon or the Tupperware lady and set up our products . You invite the guests to come and everyone has some one stop shopping and the host gets the chance to win some treats and some gift baskets. The host gets a gift basket for hosting the party and a chance to get some free treats if she refers another person that hosts a party.

Paws Party, LLC has a website if you do not want to host a party. You can order online. www.pawsparty.com At this time we do not have online parties set up.

Besides contacting us online we may also find us on Facebook, Twitter and Merchantville social sites. If you do not want to purchase online, you can email me at Bernadette@pawsParty.com. I always tell my customers that are local to please call me and I will be happy to make arrangements for delivery in an effort to save shipping costs. This helps just for the local area.

I was recognized by another blogger last year and as a matter of fact, she actually helped launch me in the business. It was thru her blog that I was able to advertise and get the word out as to who I was.

Bernadette and Shadow~ the tale of "girls" best friend and a great idea!


A year ago, Bernadette Girello couldn’t have imagined she would be spending her days whipping up dog muffins in her kitchen, taking classes in holistic pet massage or hosting dog and cat parties at a local pet grooming salon.

Back then she was busily employed as an administrative assistant, work she had done for years. But in October she was laid off from her job. Then she hurt her back and found herself confined to the couch for four months. And a funny thing happened: desperation mixed with inspiration and a dream was born.

“I remember laying there and doing a lot of soul searching,” says Bernadette. “I was over fifty and didn’t think I was going to be able find another job in my field. I started asking myself what I could do, what I wanted to do. Then one day I looked at Shadow, the beloved Black Lab we adopted from an animal shelter, and thought about the Flea Be Gone treats my husband had started making for him. And I thought, `I can do that’.”

That was in April. Only five months later, Paws Party ― though still in its infancy – is going strong. Because as soon as inspiration hit, ideas started flooding in and Bernadette headed to the kitchen to act on them.

With Shadow as her taste tester and the Internet as her guide, Bernadette began experimenting with tasty dog treats that contain brewer’s yeast and other natural ingredients to fend off fleas and ticks. She convinced her IT-savvy husband to build her a business web site and printed up business cards featuring a picture of her and Shadow. She also signed up as an independent sales consultant for Shure Pet Products to expand her network and product offerings.

To test the demand for her treats, Bernadette took a container of her first oatmeal treats to a local flea market – where they were a big hit with the dogs. From there, she headed back to the kitchen with Shadow by her side, where she developed an entire line of Shadow Treats – including Flea-be-Gone, Bacon Bonz, Cheesy Treats, Chicken Chews, and what has quickly become a customer favorite: Pup-Cakes.

“I just started experimenting with everything,” says Bernadette. “ My husband’s a big blueberry fan and often feeds Shadow blueberries so I decided to make blueberry pup muffins. The dogs love those – a few people do, too. A husband of one of my clients saw them sitting on the counter and devoured them thinking they were for him. I personally think they are a little bland, but I use all natural ingredients and they are absolutely fine for human consumption.”

Along with her line of Shadow treats and a soon-to-be launched line of cat treats, Bernadette has added a full line of pet services to Paws Party – including grooming, day care, dog walking and most recently pet massage therapy, which she took classes for after discovering the healing effect her massages had on Shadow.

In addition to word-of-mouth marketing, Bernadette has employed an “all-over-the-map” marketing strategy that include exhibiting at every animal show she can find, hosting parties at a local pet grooming salon, and sending Shadow treats to animal rescue shelters. She also has Paws Party magnets on her car and says that anytime she sees someone walking their dog, she stops them and hands them a business card.

It’s not that it doesn’t get tough at times. But when it does, Bernadette says she prays, reminds herself of everything and everyone she’s grateful for, surrounds herself with positive energy, and keeps plugging away at her dream.

“You just need to forge on,” says Bernadette. “As Alan Watts says, `The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.’ That’s exactly what I’m doing.”

Though still building a customer base for Paws Party, Bernadette is already visualizing the next part of her dream: to open a store. But she also heeds her husband’s gentle reminder that she has to crawl before she can walk.

“When you don’t have money, you really have to crawl first,” Bernadette says with a laugh. “But you know, I know I’ve found IT – the thing I’m supposed to do. And it feels amazing.”

To learn more about Paws Party, go to www.pawsparty.com.

A MOMent with... Mandee Raising My 5 Sons Blessed With Boys


My name is Mandee. I'm Mom to 5 young boys. My husband and I have been married for 12 years this September, and have been together for 15 years! I like to act silly with my boys and try to be a fun mom, but my boys still know who's boss. :)


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Raising My 5 Sons




As a mommy blogger I have a lot of questions that I can not figure out the answers to

and I put them on the back burner to come back to and somehow I always find the

answers on someones blog which is what I did with Raising My 5 Sons you see I

have been struggling with what type of blogger I am and what type I would like to be

when this question was addressed on her blog. So after reading it I know now what I

want and I think I can make it happen or at least I will die trying. So I encourage you

all read the interview she was kind enough to do for my blog and I also encourage you

to check out her blog as you will learn so much. But in the meantime what type of

blogger are you and what type do you want to be?



Welcome to Raising My 5 Sons



Wow 5 sons and they all start with C;s.

Would you like to tell us a little about them and your family life? I would love to tell you more about my boys and our life! As a matter of fact I originally started my blog because I have so much to share about my boys and although I know my immediate family and friends love to hear me go on and on about my kiddos, I'm sure they get tired of me talking as well. I wanted to keep everyone up to date, and I knew that I could make some laugh along the way. (Boys do funny things!) My oldest will be 11 in September. He's super smart and will be in the 6th grade this year. Our second son is ALL boy and loves every sport he tries. He will be 8 on Friday! Our third son will be 6 at the end of August and is going to attend Kindergarten this year. He is our musical boy and loves the guitar! Our 4th son is a little wild one. He just turned 3 in May and is a little dare devil. He once rode a large exercise ball down the steps! (I have photos and they are NOT pretty!) Last, but definitely not least, is the baby of the family. He just turned 1 last week and definitely keeps me on my toes. He was walking for a couple of days before he started RUNNING! He climbs on everything, gets into everything and tries to eat everything.







We all know you are a mom and a blogger but who are you outside

of all this and what did you want to be growing up? To be quite honest with you I don't really have a lot of my identity that I had before having children. I am actually planning to post about this soon, mother's losing their identity once they have kids. Before children I had a very active social life. I had a lot of friends and we went out and had a lot of fun. After kids, not so much. I have friends, yes, but I do not go out unless my children are with me...ever. I sometimes think people are a bit intimidated by my large family and all of my kids, however they really are very well behaved boys. As for me, I'm 30 years old (I bet a lot of you didn't know that) and I love children. I often have the kids friends at my house as well, the more-the merrier! I love writing and I love going on road trips. (Although we don't get to go on road trips often.)







How long have you been blogging? Why did you start?

I have been blogging for 2 years now! I started blogging to share with others the funny things my boys say and do and to keep family and friends up to date on things. It has turned into so much more than that for me now and I love the way my blog has shifted and turned into something better than I could have imagined. I was so excited when I got my first follower, and even more excited when I had my first 100 followers.





How did you become a reviewer and why?

When I first heard about others reviewing products on their blogs I thought, I have a blog and I have a family, why not try to get something free to review. I like to speak my mind (most of the time, when it's not hurting someone's feelings) and I knew this was one way I could get my voice heard about the latest and greatest products on the market. If a product passes the test of 5 boys it's got to be a good one, right!?

I contacted a couple of smaller companies that I had seen reviews for on other blogs and that is how I started. Now I don't contact many companies (unless there is a product we really want to try) because I am bombarded with emails from pr firms and companies wanting to get on my blog. (You can get there-it just takes time, dedication and good marketing skills. :)





As a reviewer do you think it helps big businesses to work with bloggers

and why?

I absolutely do! Moms have a lot of power! Who do you ask when you have a question about something or are not sure about a product you are thinking of trying? Typically you ask your Mom or a mom friend, right? I know I do. By going straight to the people that will be buying and using the products the companies are getting their product out there and making a name for it. Even better for the company is that they aren't having to spend a ton of advertising dollars in doing so. I really do think that bloggers are underpaid, but that's another post.





Everyone says stats need to be this and this can you tell us what some good

stats are and how we would know when companies would consider working

with a blogger as I know people get turned down all the time for this.

One of the biggest things is to get followers/traffic to your blog. Actually you can have quite a few followers, but if they don't keep coming back then your traffic will go down and you might not qualify for review products. Companies want their products to be seen by as many people as they can, and some of them aren't willing to work with some of the smaller blogs that aren't getting a lot of traffic. I suggest you visit other blogs and leave comments (not just on giveaways b/c a lot of blogs don't comment back for giveaway entries) but leave comments on regular posts and when you do leave the comment leave a link back to your blog. Not only does this link help your blog name get out there, but a lot of the time that blogger will then return the favor and visit and comment on your blog. (I try to do this myself, although sometimes it does take me a bit. If you were to stop by my blog and comment on 3 of my posts-non giveaway posts that is-then you could expect me to stop by your blog and comment on 3 of your posts. It's sort of part of the unspoken blogger respect code. However, not all bloggers follow this.) Another good thing is to advertise your blog. Not everyone has the money to take out ads, however you can ask friends to tell their friends about your page, put your blog link in your signature so everyone that gets an email from you can see it, and put your link in your signature on message boards and so forth. The more people that know about your blog, the more traffic you will get!





What is your favorite social site and why? How is it used? Definitely Facebook. I admit that I spend way to much time on Facebook. I like how quickly you can stay up to date with family and friends. I also love using my fan page for my business. It is so much quicker than writing a blog post and some companies are fine with me just advertising on Facebook for them since I have a pretty decent facebook following.







I have trouble combining work and family and I seem to live on the computer

how do you not do this and do you work with a schedule or what?

I admit that I spend WAY to much time on the computer. I am often multi-tasking and stepping away from my computer (leaving it open and easily accessible) and then popping back in when I get a chance. I try to do my blogging late at night when the boys are in bed, however I schedule them to post early in the morning. Marketing my blog is important, but my family is even more important to me. I often take breaks from the computer to run around the house and be silly with my boys. They are only young once and grow up way too fast, so I make it a point to take time for them. Although I do admit that I compromise on my own sleep to keep up with everything.





As a blogger what is one item you could not be with out?

My laptop. I can't blog without a computer, and being stuck at a desk is a hassle.





As a blogger what advice would you share with someone just getting started?

I would say that if you want to grow your blog you need to be visiting other blogs. Also, join clubs such as Mom Bloggers Club and so forth. There is a ton of information there, and you can find other blogs to follow.





How does your family handle the reviews you do?

My children love reviewing products. My boys consider my blogging my job. They once told me that their friends were jealous because their moms weren't bloggers and they didn't get cool stuff. (We like to share stuff with their friends though, so they have come to love the reviews as well!)





I seem to be getting more and more products and I have trouble keeping things

straight and in one place how do you do this and do you have any advice you

would care to share?

This is a very hard thing. I actually have an office and I keep all review products in a pile. Once they have been reviewed I move them out of the pile and place them wherever I want them in my home. When the boys get a toy or something I have to take photos right away because I don't want something to happen to the product before I review it. I have special folders in my email. Whenever I get an email from a company wanting a review on a product I move it to the Review folder in my email. If I am having a special event, like the Back to School event I have coming up, I will place the products that I am including in this event in my "Back to School Bash" folder in my email. This really helps. Although I know others that make spreadsheets for all of this.







Do you have a office and if so how do you keep people out of it?

I do have an office, however it is my husband's office as well for his work. My children only go in there if they need a pencil or something, and know that it is off limits. They think my office is boring, so they don't really try to go in.





Do you work certain hours and people leave you alone or do you work whenever?

I work whenever I find time and the television is always blaring cartoons, children are always climbing on me and I'm typically covered in drool! ha ha!





I would like to work 9 to 5 but my family does not understand I work from home

and can not be bothered and the neighbors too how would you handle this?

I am not able to do this as I have no sitter and 5 kids, however if I was able to do this I would just let everyone know that your job needs you to be fully focused and it's hard to get it done with a ton of interruptions. I'm sorry, I'm not much help on this one as I have little quiet time myself.





How has the blog changed your life? Is this better or worse than when you started?

I love blogging and it has helped me be able to express my feelings on subjects and products. I love being able to help other parents, even if in little ways. Blogging has also helped me bring in a little bit of money, as well as products for my family. I love that I am helping provide for my family. Being a stay at home mom is a lot of "work" however this makes me feel like I'm doing more than just caring for the boys. It gives me the feeling of having a "job."





What was the favorite item you have had a chance to review and what would your

dream item be to review? Wow, I'm not sure, but we are going to review a new vehicle in a couple of weeks and I'm thinking that could fall under favorite and dream item. Too bad we don't get to keep it! I have reviewed some pretty neat jewelry and a pretty awesome toy box for the boys, but one of my favorite items was our new Delta Kitchen Faucet. I loved being able to help with the kitchen remodel!







As a blogger and a parent what advice would you share with someone who is starting out? If you feel overwhelmed with blogging please step back and take a break. Our children should always come first.





What is your favorite blog? blogger? and why? Oh wow, I honestly can not give you one favorite because there are so many that I like, but I have followed one blog from the beginning and will probably follow her forever b/c she is so sweet and has helped me out a ton over the years. Her name is Xenia and her blog is www.thanksmailcarrier.com Check her out and tell her Mandee from Raising My 5 Sons sent you!







I see lots of events such as blog hops do you do these and if so do they help or do they

hinder you? I used to do a lot of blog hops, but life gets busy and I don't always have time now. I do get in on some every now and then as time permits. I would say the definitely help though. It gets your link out there and people will get know you.







Is there one piece of advice you would like to share that you wish someone had told you

when you started out? I guess I wish someone would have told me that blogging can be work and can be time consuming. Starting out I thought I was going to sit down every day and write up a cute little post, and that was fine, but as my blog grew I found myself spending more and more time working on it. The more you work on it though, the more you get out of it.







Can you share one thing we do not know about you? Hmmm...I could probably share a million, but thinking of one thing that you all might actually find amusing is hard to do. How about this...I absolutely love coffee. I love it so much that I have to have 2 cups before I can really start my day. I also am addicted to frozen coffees and if I'm in town I feel the need to swing through a fast food restaurant for a frozen coffee. (Probably not great for my physique, but it's my weakness!)

A MOMent with... Bead For Life



BeadforLife creates sustainable opportunities for impoverished women to lift themselves out of poverty by creating a circle of connection between women in Uganda and women around the world. Women in Uganda work hard to roll beautiful bead jewelry out of recycled paper and harvest shea nuts to make shea butter. Women worldwide sell these items and educate themselves and others about extreme poverty. The profits return to Uganda and fund health care, housing and business training initiatives. www.beadforlife.org






We are also very much trying to get people engaged with BeadforLife - by hosting BeadParties, which is easy, free and makes a difference. Anybody who registers to host a party from now - September is automatically entered to win a trip to UGANDA.....

Moms-views on toys~


KABAM! ™

The fastest word-builders win this quick-thinking, head-to-head word game. Two players or teams draw cards and set them down next to each other, face up. Each card features word parts including suffixes, prefixes, single vowels, consonants, and diphthongs. Be the first to build a word by adding one or more letters to the letters on the cards, and you win the round. Now you can play our infamous Facebook Wordplay Wednesdays at home! Ages 7+




I Love this game for so many reasons but one of the most important is it has brought my husband and I closer as he has trouble reading and we have been playing this game and it is helping him think how words are spelled and it has made him decide to look words up which he has never wanted to do.

Plus he has even gotten it out when he has been at his mothers to play with his grandads which is nice as it is bringing them closer and he feels like he is doing something with them. I can even tell his mom is impressed with the game as she has insisted  on buying all the grandkids one for Christmas as it will help them with there spelling and help them in school.

If you have children who struggle with there spelling then I would suggest you check into KABAM. Please check out there site.

This company has alot of great educational plus fun games and toys for kids of all ages~

Here are the four AWESOME products for the month of June:

Everyday Uses Rock & Card Set

Identify various rocks and minerals and correlate them to their real-life uses with this hands-on rock and card set. Each -sided card features a photo of a rock in the set, pictures of the way it is used in everyday life, and fun, kid-friendly facts.

Grades 3+/Ages 8+

Geo Safari Tuff Scope

Explore images up to 400x their original size with Tuff Scope! This two-in-one microscope is perfect for classroom projects or magnification on the go! Simply set up as a classroom station or remove the microscope from the base and send kids outdoors to explore. When used with the GeoSafari® Tuff Cam digital video camera, GeoSafari® Tuff Scope transforms into a digital microscope, projecting magnified images onto a computer screen or projector. Also features 2x continuous optical zoom, transmissive and reflective LED lighting, and a storage drawer.

Smens

The latest release from the best-selling manufacturer of Smencils, Smens are gourmet scented pens made from recycled newspapers. Available scents include Red Licorice, Creamsicle, Aloha, Mystery Scent, Banana Fo Fana, Mocha, Passion Fruit, Ninja Berry, Pink Lemonade, and Black Licorice. Each Smen is wrapped  seperatly in a stay-fresh biodegradable plastic tube which will allow it  to keep its scent for two years.

Ages 3+

Fraction Formula

It’s a race to “1” with this 4-player fraction game!

1. Draw a card and find the corresponding fizzy fraction tile.

2. Drop the tile into your cylinder.

3. “Hold” it you think you’re as close t o 1 as you’ll get without going over or draw another card if you think you can get closer by adding another fraction tile.

4. The player who gets closest to 1 wins the round!

Grades 3+/Ages 8+


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Moms-views on fun eating out, take 2~

 



RAINFOREST CAFE ANNOUNCES THE 2011 “WHERE IN THE WORLD IS CHA! CHA!?”


SUMMER PHOTO CONTEST



HOUSTON – Cha! Cha!, the loveable red-eyed tree frog and Rainforest Café mascot, is on summer vacation! We’re asking for your help tracking his adventures beginning July 1, 2011 and ending August 14, 2011 at 11:59 pm PST, during Rainforest Café’s national “Where in the World is Cha! Cha!?” photo contest. Participants are asked to submit a photo of Cha! Cha! depicted in a fun, humorous or unique situation anywhere in the world. Remember, Cha! Cha! must be included in your photo for it to count!

Cha! Cha! may be incorporated into the participant’s photo entry by purchasing a plush toy, figurine, t-shirt, etc. at participating sponsor locations, or by visiting www.rainforestcafe.com or Rainforest Café’s Official Facebook page - http://www.facebook.com/officialrainforestcafe  and downloading an image for free.

Once you submit your photo, you will be given the opportunity to download a coupon for a Free Chef’s Appetizer of the Day to be used at Rainforest Cafe. Plus, when voting begins August 15, 2011 through September 5, 2011 at 11:59 pm PST, you will be emailed a link to share with friends to encourage them to vote for your photo.

A Grand Prize winner and 2nd place through 4th place winners will be chosen from the top photos receiving the most consumer votes. Winners will receive one of these great prizes:

- Grand Prize: A trip to Orlando, FL for four to include: $2000 in Airline Ticket Vouchers, Walt Disney Resort® Theme Park Passes, hotel accommodations for three nights and two (2) $100 Landry’s, Inc Complimentary Dinner and Drink cards.

- Second Prize: A trip to San Antonio, TX for four to include: $1500 in Airline Ticket Vouchers, four SeaWorld San Antonio Single Day Tickets, hotel accommodations for two nights and one (1) $100 Landry’s, Inc Complimentary Dinner and Drink card.

- Third Prize: $500 American Express® Gift Card

- Fourth Prize: $250 Landry’s, Inc. Complimentary Dinner and Drink card

- Fifth Prize: 10 honorable mention winners will be chosen by a panel of judges to receive a $25 Landry’s, Inc. Complimentary Dining and Drink card

During this contest, a Cha! Cha! Plush can be purchased for $5.99 instead of the regular $9.99 at all participating Rainforest Cafe locations. The contest is also detailed in our YouTube video - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ktA6gTZMEI8&feature=channel_video_title.  The contest is open to entrants ages 18 and up.

Rainforest Cafe, a wholly owned subsidiary of Landry’s, Inc., develops, owns and currently operates 26 combination restaurant/retail facilities with a stimulating and entertaining rainforest theme worldwide. For more information, call 713.850.1010.

Rainforest Café’s national “Where in the World is Cha! Cha!?” photo contest. Cha! Cha!

Cha! Cha!, the loveable red-eyed tree frog and Rainforest Café mascot, loves to travel – especially with friends.

Houstonians are encouraged to bring him along on summer vacation, snap a photo, upload it onto http://www.rainforestcafe.com/  or Rainforest Café’s Official Facebook Page http://www.facebook.com/officialrainforestcafe , for a chance to win a free trip to Disney World and other exciting prizes.

Participants have through August 14, 2011 at 11:59 pm PST, to enter Rainforest Café’s national “Where in the World is Cha! Cha!?” photo contest. Cha! Cha!

Cha!Cha! may be incorporated into the participant’s photo entry by purchasing a plush toy, figurine, t-shirt, etc. at participating sponsor locations, or by visiting http://www.rainforestcafe.com/  or Rainforest Café’s Official Facebook page - http://www.facebook.com/officialrainforestcafe  and downloading an image for FREE.

Visit  YouTubeand our video  video announcing the “Where in the World is Cha! Cha!?” photo contest - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ktA6gTZMEI8&feature=channel_video_title.

 Thank you!








Glenda, Charlie and David 

Moms-views on fun at the movies`~

Southern Yankee Mix


I would like to say Thanks to Southern Yankee Mix as I was given tickets to the new Winnie The Pooh movie. The website is loaded with tons of fun for the whole family! Games, printable, you can even watch a clip form the movie!
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Where I was able to give them to my husband so he could take his grandson.

This is the first time he has been able to doing something with him and he is 7 so it was a really special deal.

For both my husband and Val. With David and I  being on unemployment I could not have done it with out the kindness of this blogger.

My son and I also went as my MIL paid our way in and I must tell you we fell in Love with the move.

It will be one we will buy.

I am a huge Tigger and Eeyore fan and so I think I was more excited than the boys where until my son  got

inside and it started to play then he was in total awe.

I was so amazed that he sat through the whole movie and did not move.

So I would like to Thank not only Southern Yankee Mix but Disney for a unforgettable day.



Glenda, David and Charlie


A MOMent with... Celebrate Milestones

Hello. My name is Toni Lawrence and I own Celebrate Milestones (http://celebrate-milestones.com). I put the business together in 2009 as a result of job outsourcing and my need to bring in income. I was working out of my home full time for T-Mobile, taking customer service calls for T-Mobile when they decided to outsource their call center jobs to Bangladesh (200 people lost their jobs).




While on unemployment, and having a hard time finding a job despite a good work record and a great deal of experience, I decided to open an on-line gift shop. As the shop expanded I later moved on to all types of items for special events. Currently I carry wedding dresses and formal wear, jewelry, party favors and decorations as well as gifts.



Because I did not have money to purchase inventory I looked into drop shipping as an alternative way to add items to the store, but not have to invest in stock. I have an agreement with several wholesale distributors in order to carry a variety of different items than those supplied from just one wholesaler, and my customers order through me. I get a small percentage off what I buy from the distributor, sometimes have to pay a drop ship fee to them, and they send the merchandise directly to the customer. Many wholesalers demand a minimum purchase, and since I am working on a tight budget and most of the orders I receive are for one item, I am not always able to work with wholesalers I would like to. I have my checkout charge shipping via the UPS table for the weight of the item, and I do not make any money off the shipping – as a matter of fact, because I live in Michigan the UPS charges are based on items being sent from Michigan to the customer instead of where they actually come from (distributors from all over the country and Canada) I may even end up paying more for shipping than I charge the customer. In addition, I offer free ground shipping within the continental U.S. on orders over $150 (except for extra heavy items, in which I allow a $30 shipping allowance). Since the distributors do not have that policy I take the shipping charges out of my profits (sometimes I end up paying more than I make). This is a lesson I had to learn – about the $30 allowance, because I ended up paying out-of-pocket a couple times and too many of those puts you out of business.



Although I had years of retail experience in physical stores, and had owned a local newspaper for a few years, I did not have online marketing experience. This has been the biggest challenge I have had to meet. There are many things you have to know in order to have an online store that gets traffic, and the business world is changing these rules all the time.



For someone wishing to start a business of their own, I recommend you take some business courses as well as bookkeeping. One thing I have learned over the years was the importance of a real business plan, a good bookkeeping system, and knowing your competitors as well as your products.

 Do a lot of research on the niche you want to appeal to, and be willing to make adjustments as you go along.



I do research all the time for  myself, from setting up the website, adding stock, bookkeeping and keeping up with out-of-stock and discontinued items.

Because not all distributors send out a list when an item is out-of-stock or discontinued, and I have over 7,000 items in my shop, I am not always able to catch an item before a customer orders it.

 In those cases I have to try to save the sale by substituting for another item, or give the money back.

 This is heartbreaking for two reasons – I lose a potential customer who will probably never come back, and I lose revenue.



Because competition is stiff, here is what I  I need to do:

With  Celebrate Milestones I need to make sure that my customer service is set apart  from the others by being better at what I do.

I understand how important it is to show appreciation for the people who are supporting my business by purchasing from me, so I want to bend over backwards to get them what they are looking for. It’s not always possible to please everyone, and sometimes you do get scammed and end up taking a loss. That’s all a part of doing business.



Because the store does not bring in nearly what I made working, I still have to supplement my income by doing other jobs. I freelance as a writer doing web content for several people. The business pays for itself, and my utilities, but I have a long way to go to make it a full-time job.



Be prepared to work 20 hours a day when trying to get started. You don’t have to be technically inclined if you use templates and have a server that is dependable. If you can afford it, pay someone to do your SEO work. You will find you will need to do a blog separately (http://partyideadblog.com/ ), and make sure you add links back to your site in the content.



People who work at home have a real challenge. Some people think that, because you are working at home, you can just drop things and go at a drop of the hat. Not if you are serious about being successful.

It is not something you can do when you have small children around. I watch my (2-yr-old) grandson while my daughter goes to school. He demands all of my attention, so when he is here I can’t work. If you can work with someone else, and they can take care of the kids while you are trying to get going, that would be a plus.

Better yet, have others work with you to set things up. I did it alone, along with trying to look for a job and write, so there is no free time.



Not everyone can own a business, but everyone wants to. Many people who are experts in their field do not make good business owners.

You have to be ready to accept help and criticism.

You have to have the time to devote to make it work, and you have understand there will be setbacks.

 If you keep your eye on the goal, and don’t get diverted, you will be successful. I wish you the best.

 
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A MOMent with... Majick Kitchen

MagicKitchen~
MagicKitchen.com

As a mom of a 3 year old I Love to find new and unusual companies to purchase items from and I really like knowing this company is here as it is going to make gift giving so easy.

 I have a sister in law who can not stand to cook and her husband is a diabetic and they like to eat out but can not due to her health so my husband and I will be purchasing some of these wonderful meals for them for Christmas as they will be able to have a date night which every couple needs.

 I also have a friend who live in my apartment and has to have a Gluten free diet and there is only one person in her household and she is so picky to buy for that I did not know what to get her for Christmas until I ran into this site. So with Christmas less than 5 months away start to make your list now and use this wonderful company and I can Promise you your gifts will be a hit this year.

If you would like to connect with them they are on: FB and twitter: http://www.facebook.com/pages/MagicKitchencom/162785117126247
http://twitter.com/#!/magickitchen

 Would you be so kind as to   tell us who and what is Magic Kitchen?

 MagicKitchen.com (the legal name and the one we prefer to use) is a company who cooks, freezes, sells and ships frozen meals. Our healthy, chef-prepared meals are prepared using top-quality fresh produce and ingredients to ensure you receive delicious, nutritious meals that are quick to prepare.

We have two menus, the Home Style Menu with separate Entrees, Sides & Desserts sold individually.

The second meal plan is  MK Meals Special menu, which is great for Seniors & Low Sodium, Diabetic-Friendly & Renal Diets.

We are known for our excellent customer service, and our delicious, easy-to-prepare meals.

Here’s the difference between the two menus:

HomeStyle has parts of the meals sold separately such as Beef Bordelaise in main courses, Scalloped Potatoes in side dishes and Ricotta Cheesecake in desserts. You can mix and match meals this way.

The MK Meal special menu is created by chefs and nutritionists to be full meals with a main and two sides, and the nutritional mix is good for various special diets.

How was it started and is it a franchise?

 We were founded in 2005 by Greg Miller and Michelle Tayler. Originally the business was started to offer healthy nutritious, simple meals for seniors, busy families and singles that did not want to cook, did not have the time to cook or did not know how to cook.

One of Greg’s incentives for starting the business was his experience with his elderly father who lived alone and gradually lost weight because he didn't have an interest in cooking.

"We want to help seniors eat more balanced meals," Greg says. “We want to provide good quality meals at a fair price and help people that need special diet meals, people that cannot or do not prepare proper meals for themselves.”

 We aren’t a franchise.

How many people work for you and where are you located? We have three kitchens with head chefs hard at work creating new meals and working at quality control on the ones that are currently on our menu.

In addition, we have a crew at our shipping location in Kansas City, MO. And in our office we have four people working almost around the clock to make sure things run smoothly. We accept calls and answer important emails 24x7.

Why should people use your services? Quality and customer service!

Here are a couple of examples:

A lady called and said that she knew the order had been delivered to her farmhouse as the box was on the step, but there was nothing inside. It turns out that a elk had come to the doorstep and opened the box, taken the cooler and eaten the food in the trees near the house. She knew because of the elk droppings. We shipped the customer the order again no charge due to the extraordinary situation.

 I order meals for my mom and she is always so excited to receive them! She has her favorites but tries something new with each order. It brings me peace of mind when I'm traveling and can't take her out grocery shopping. Thanks for such wonderful service!


Anita H.Trying to create a kidney-friendly diet is tough. You have to read every label AND you have to cut out some of your favorite foods. These meals make it easy to stay on track. They're filling and they taste good.

 Lori P. Do you cater and do you offer foods for parties?

We don’t cater per se, but it’s definitely an easy way to throw a dinner party!

We had one lady who was supposed to make eggplant Parmigiana for a club meeting, but she couldn’t cook. She ordered ours, called us so we could talk her through heating it up, and got rave reviews!

What types of foods do you carry?

We have always had the MagicKitchen.com HomeStyle menu to be used to select gifts for family and friends in need of meals.

Within a short time of being established, a good portion of our business was focused on ongoing meal programs for our rapidly growing regular customer base.

After a couple years the focus was more and more on special diets, initially low fat, low carb, etc. and then very soon low sodium, diabetic friendly, renal diet friendly as well as dialysis friendly meals.

With the special diets category of meals our separate MK Meals Special Diets Menu was developed.

Do you have items for diabetics? gluten free? soy free? We have a lot of choices on our menu.

Under HomeStyle, we have subcategories in a section called Healthy HomeStyle, which include gluten-free, low fat, low carb, low sodium, diabetic-friendly, dairy-free and vegetarian.

Then in our MK meal special menu, we have sections for seniors, diabetics, weight control, and for those on dialysis or on renal diets.

If someone comes in and orders and is not happy how do you handle this?

We have a 100% satisfaction guarantee. http://www.magickitchen.com/guarantee.html.

 Here’s a testimonial from a customer: Your prompt attention to providing extraordinary customer service and satisfaction, along with the quality of your meals has made me a customer who will use your services again as well as recommend you.

~Angelique B.And another: I purchased some French Onion soup from MK, in December. It was for my elderly mom, in TX.She has emphysema and was ill with a bronchitis/pneumonia attack.

Mother loves FO Soup! And, when she is ill, it is a very soothing, nutritious food that she enjoys. Your recipe sounded pure/simple....as close to home made as I could get to her at that time, without actually being in TX to make it for her.She loved the MK FO soup, but found the salt content very overwhelming (& she likes salt!) I forwarded that fact to MK. Within a couple of weeks, my mother received a call from MK, with an apology, explanation. The reason for the over-salty taste had been discovered and corrected. And, as well, MK sent her replacements.



My hat is off to MK. I will recommend your business to anyone! It is sooo wonderful to do business with real, live people and to have them listen, respond....investigate, resolve and compensate.

EXCELLENT work! In many ways, you guys are right up there with the pilot who brought the

US Airways plane to a successful, safe landing in the Hudson River.



With appreciation for your manner of doing business, and kindest regards,

~D Abraham

Where are you located and do you have plans to expand to other cities?

Our offices are in Los Altos, CA, but our delivery dispatcher is in Missouri.

We’ve found that the delivery charges across the country are considerably cheaper because we ship from a central location.

How long does it take to get the items you purchase and do you deliver the orders?

MagicKitchen.com can ship everywhere in the continental US within 3 days maximum and do so with very cost effective shipping rates. We can also ship overnight if needed, for an additional charge. We ship using UPS primarily, and FedEx as well.

What is your favorite part of the business and your least favorite

.I love trying the new meals when they come in.

Right now I have some of our new meals in my freezer, and I’ve already tried the Stuffed Peppers, which are Bell Peppers stuffed full of tender, flavorful ground beef and swimming in a great marinara sauce.

My least favorite part of the business must be when there is a big snow storm that delays orders. If an order is inedible when it arrives, whether it’s the fault of a snowstorm or a shipping issue or something else not under our control, we reship at no charge. But even so, we’re bound to end up with some unhappy customers, and that makes us unhappy too.

Where all do you advertise and how do you feel about bloggers-

 we advertise on Google, on Food411, and on various coupon sites.

I think bloggers are great and a wonderful way to get the word out about MagicKitchen.com, but unfortunately many of them want free meals and a giveaway, and it becomes too much of a burden financially, with not too much return in orders. I wish more would do what you’re doing!


Moms-views on fun~ Time Island Twitter Party

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Summer is definitely a time for adventure and exploring! However, with the heat levels hitting record highs across much of the country, many of us can be tempted to stay inside and "explore" the TV channel line-up. What if we told you that your kids could have a fun and educational adventure, right from your air conditioning living room? We'd say "sign us up!"
With Time Island , kids can do just that. Join us for a fun Twitter party to celebrate the launch of this fun and free virtual world!
Time Island Twitter Party
Date: Monday, August 1, 2011
Time: 8 p.m. EST
Location: #TimeIsland
Host: @MomTalkRadio (Maria Bailey, Founder of MomSelect and Mom of 4)
Time Island is a place of wonder and adventure. Your kids will love putting their survival skills to the test as they explore white beaches and lush jungles; tree-top terraces and dark underground caverns. They will use their wits to outsmart, out maneuver and outlast the troublesome green creatures that inhabit the island, known as the Goggs. To survive on Time Island is a challenge, but the fun is even greater!

Time Island Boy-2Time Island Girl-3

Speaking of fun, the #TimeIsland twitter party certainly fits the bill! We'll be sharing our own adventurous stories, as well as swapping tips on selecting safe and secure online experiences for our kids. And of course, we'll be doling out prizes as well. Lucky winners will receive Time Island prize packs, stocked with branded goodies and a $25 Visa gift card!

We even have a prize pack up for grabs before the party even starts. Enter to win the Time Island goodies and the $25 gift card by:
- Clicking HERE to register
- Tweeting the details of the party from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. on the day of the event
- Visiting http://timeisland.tv/ and creating a profile for your child
As always, be sure to follow @ResourcefulMom, @MomTalkRadio, @TimeIsland and @MomSelectAmy throughout the evening for updates, prize information and contest details.
We're so excited to party with you and your family! Feel free to contact Amy@bsmmedia.com with any questions.
Warm Regards,
Your Friends at MomSelect and Time Island

A MOMent with... Quick Sitter


1) In your own words Please tell us how Quick Sitter came to be and what it is.


A: QuickSitter.com provides a quick, safe, simple way of hiring a qualified babysitter, pet sitter or senior care provider in the DFW metroplex. When I had my youngest child, it took a long time before my husband and I felt comfortable leaving her with a sitter, but with the changes that came with a new baby, my husband and I needed to have some alone time to remember US. We had no family close and finding a sitter that we felt was qualified and experienced was an overwhelming task. We interviewed several to find out that many of them were not truthful about their experience, qualifications, etc. In talking with other mothers, I found out that this was a common problem, so QuickSitter.com was born. With QuickSitter.com, we provide an easy and quick way for parents to hire qualified, experienced sitters that are all pre-screened, background checked, and trained in CPR and First Aid before joining the QuickSitter staff. All of the sitters that accept babysitting assignments can be trusted, and parents can feel comfortable with who they leave their children with while they get back to focusing on the things they like to do. We allow parents to hire sitters on short or advanced notice by simply filling out a brief form on our website.



2) How long has QuickSitter been in business?

A: We've been in business for 2 years - established in 2009



3) If this is your personal business have you thought of expanding into other countries or setting up franchises?

A: We do plan to expand, but it will be a gradual expansion. We will expand to various cities in Texas, then to various states. We may establish franchises in the future, but have not made any definite moves toward that yet.



5) How many sitters do you have on staff?

A: We currently have approximately 100 sitters on staff across the metroplex.



6) Do they pay you or do you pay them?

A: We absolutely pay our sitters for their service. Because our sitters work for us, and we employ them, we pay them per hour, per assignment.



7) What one service would you like to add to your business?

A: We currently do not provide full time childcare for parents who may need a sitter/nanny for 40 or more hours per week; we provide hourly, on-call care for parents who need occasional or part time care for their children, pets or elderly loved ones. Because we have received several requests for full time sitter services, we will be adding that within the next few months.



8) For someone looking to start a business what one thing would you tell them?

A: I would advise anyone looking to start a business to identify something that they have a problem with or a service or product that they could benefit from, and chances are, others could benefit from that product or service as well. If something can make the lives of others easier, especially moms, there is a much better chance that business will be successful.



9) If we contact you to watch our child but do not like the sitter who is sent what happens?

A: We do our best to match parents with their perfect sitter. However, if parents dislike the sitter we match them up with, for any reason, we will be sure not to book that sitter for them again. If parents have an issue with a sitter before they leave and do not feel comfortable leaving their child, we ask that parents contact us and let us know the concern. It is QuickSitter's policy to book two sitters for each assignment - a primary sitter who is scheduled to arrive at the parents' home, and a secondary sitter in case the primary sitter has an unexpected emergency and has to cancel. The secondary sitter may also be contacted to replace the primary sitter if a major issue arises, but is not guaranteed that the primary sitter will be replaced on such short notice.



10) How do you know you can trust the people you hire to take care of our Loved ones?

A: All of our sitters go through a rigorous pre-screening process in which we interview them, check references, etc. before we hire them. They are all background checked, and we require them to be trained in CPR and First Aid prior to joining the QuickSitter team. Because QuickSitter's management team is comprised of individuals that are both parents and business men and women, our parenting instints also play a role when it comes to the type of people we hire. We know what we would want in an ideal sitter, and we've done research to find out what many parents want in a sitter. We pride ourselves on hiring the best of the best when it comes to the level of child care providers we have on our staff.



11) Besides caring for children what other services do you provide and why?

A: We also provide pet sitting and senior care because we realize that it is sometimes just as hard to find qualified, reliable care for pets and seniors as it is to find quality care for children, and we wanted to eliminate the hassle for those who may need help in those areas, as well.



12) Is it the same staff or is it different?

A: We do have sitters that are qualified in all areas, but we mostly hire different staff for the different areas. Those with professional pet sitting experience are staffed for our pet care service, etc.



13) Does the sitter come provided with ways to entertain the kids?

A: Yes our sitters do come prepared to entertain the children they care for. One thing that makes QuickSitter unique is that our sitters do not simply sit children in front of the television or with video games to entertain themselves, rather our sitters engage children while they are in their care. Our sitters come prepared to play games, do arts and crafts, read to children, etc.



14) Do they make dinner for the kids?

A: Our sitters are able to make dinner for the children, but we prefer that parents prepare meals ahead of time, and allow our sitters to serve the children the pre-prepared meals when necessary. This eliminates the possibility of children not eating because they do not like what the sitter has prepared, or the possibility of sitters preparing something a child may be allergic to, etc.





15) How much do you charge for a child? or more?

A: We have lowered our rates for the summer, but they are subject to change in the fall. Please visit our website to see our current rates.



16) Are they certified to take care of children?

A: Yes, our sitters are certified to care for children, pets and seniors.



17) How can someone apply to become a sitter?

A: Applying to be a sitter with our company is easy. Individuals simply visit our website - www.quicksitter.com - and complete the "Be a Sitter" form and someone will contact them for an interview to see if they are a fit for the company.



Websites to include:

Facebook.com/quicksitter

Twitter.com/quicksitter

Moms-views on books~ with Kimberly

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I would like to share a book with you that I was able to read

and it has helped me quite a bit as I am a blogger who does

a lot of reviews and giveaways and I need to build my followers

in order for more companies to choose to work with me and

I can tell you once I read this book I found a lot of things I did

not think of and that I did not know. So I hope to implement them

in my daily routine as it will help me become the blogger I would

like to be. So if your having trouble with either Twitter or Facebook

then take the time to read it and also think about contacting Kimberly

for coaching because I know if I could afford it I would hire her.

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I write the photography blog, Through the Lens of Kimberly Gauthier. It’s a blog for amateur photographers who didn’t read their manual. When I purchased my first DSLR camera in 2009, I quickly realized that I was out of my depth and it took me a year to figure out how to use my camera. In 2010, I was thrilled to discover that shooting in manual mode wasn’t as hard as I thought and that’s when the idea of my photography blog started coming to light. In 2011, I started writing in earnest and I’ve been enjoying connecting with other amateur photographers who experienced the same frustrations I had and trading tips and inspiration.


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A MOMent with... Rosilind Jukic


Rosilind Jukic, author of A Little R & R, is an American married to a Bosnian living in Croatia. She is a busy mom of an 18-month old livewire with another child due in October. She blogs about her passions: God, family, and healthy living.

When she's not chasing her toddler and writing, she also sings, plays piano and crochets.
Vist her blog~ jukiczr.blogspot.com -


Interview questions:




1) Tell us who you are and what makes you you. My name is Rosilind and I am a work-at-home mom. Being a Christian, wife, and mom is what makes me me. I say Christian, because my faith is interwoven into every aspect of my life and influences everything I do from day to day; and being a wife and mom is what I've always wanted to be. In grade school when other kids wanted to be firemen, policemen, doctors and nurses my highest aspiration was to be a wife and mommy. Neither were easy roads, I became a wife for the first time at 34 and a mom at 36. But, I take such joy and pleasure in both and wear both titles with the highest honor!



2) Share you family with us and 1 thing you Love about them and why. My husband's name is Zlatko (Zlah-tkoh), he is Bosnian/Croatian and came to Croatia from Bosnia with his family as a young teenager during the war as a refugee. Their city was bombed and later given to Serbia in the Dayton agreement, so his family has remained here in Croatia since then. Together we have one son and another on the way (due in 2 1/2 months). Robi is 18 months old - lively and joyful and investigates everything. One thing I love about my family is that we know how to love and have fun. We do both with abandon and I think that's what makes us strong and secure in one another. We love deeply and never take ourselves too seriously.





3) Do you have any pets? Sadly, no. We are renting an apartment, and so we're hesitant about having one. Our dream is to buy a home, and we plan to promptly thereafter get a dog.



4) As a American how did you end up in a different country and why did you stay? Will you ever come back to America to live and if not why? Oh - these are some of my favorite questions to answer! In 2004, I decided to pack up what I could of what I owned and move to Croatia as a missionary to assist my misssionary-sister and her Croatian Pastor-husband in their church. I had visited the year before and really saw a need here, and I just couldn't seem to get away from the feeling that I needed to come back. When I came, I came with the intention to stay and never look back. It was hard for my parents, and I had no idea what I was in for. It wasn't easy in the beginning - in fact, it was downright hard. But, that decision is what kept me from running back "home" when it got hard. I was determined to see things through - and I did. I don't see returning to America in my future. The day I accepted my husband's ring was the day that I knew that going back was no longer an option. And I was ready to take that step and close that door forever. If he ever decides he wants to move to the States, I'll follow him. But, I am happy in my life here and have fully adjusted to Croatian life.





5) Where is your parents and how do they fill about where you live and why do they fill this way? My parents live in Oregon. They are happy for me because I am doing what I am called to do as a Christian and as a person, and I have found love and a life that brings me joy, but I know they struggle with having two daughters and soon-to-be-six grandkids over here.





6) We see you have a blog can you tell us why you blog and how long you have had it and if you willever stop blogging. I started blogging in 2004, but I started seriously writing a year or so before that. Funny thing - in school I hated writing. But while facing a difficult time in my life, I began to experiment with writing - songwriting, poetry, and just getting thoughts down on page. That's when I wrote my one-and-only good song and my first (and yet unpublished) book. In 2004 I began experimenting with blogging and writing in various places, but after my son was born in 2010 I began seriously blogging. I decided to use it as a way of helping my family keep up with Robi - but it quickly morphed into what it is today - a conglomeration of mommy/Christian/health/recipe/and-just-whatever blog. *grin* I blog because I have a million-and-one thoughts roaming around in my brain, and I must get them out. Everyday I find things to write about: a favorite recipe, a household tip, something I've read in the Bible, a profound thought I want to expound upon, or something silly one of us has done. If people read what I write it is just the cherry on the icing for me. And I could no more stop blogging than I could give up my right arm (and I"m right-handed. lol!). Writing is like breathing to me.





7) What is your favorite thing to blog about and your least favorite? Ohhhhhh....I have so many favorite things to blog about - but my most favorite thing to blog about is my crazy, zany, silly boy. I just wrote a post: 12 Things I Learned From Robi, which are really 12 silly, crazy, messy things he does around here to keep his poor 7 1/2-month pregnant mommy on her toes. I don't know that I have a least-favorite thing. If I don't want to blog about it, I don't. That's the joy of having my own blog - and not being constrained by other people telling me what I have to write about.





8) As a adult did you as a child ever think you would live somewhere other than America? I had absolutely no idea. In fact, as a teen, I travelled with my dad to Europe. He is a pastor and he had some speaking engagements in Poland and the Czech Republic. Well, by the time we returned home, I was adamant that I'd never live in Europe. Furthermore, when my sister married in 2001, she married here - in Croatia. We all piled on the plane to attend (I was her maid-of-honor). The only thing I enjoyed was the wedding, and strongly announced that I'd never return to Croatia. Ever! And God had the last laugh, because here I am. And loving it!



9) What did you want to be as a child? I wanted to be a wife and mommy. I thought both would be so easy to acheive. Little did I know the road that lay ahead of me. But both occupations were well worth waiting and fighteing for - and the hard road I travelled to get here only made me what I am today - and helped me to appreciate both roles so much more!



10) Can you tell us how it is different than America and why it is different? Oh - where to start? Everything is different. But I think the greatest difference here is living in the aftermath of mulitple wars - or should I say an entire history of war after war. It has affected everything from the economy, which is always on the brink of collapse, to the people's tough exterior built to withstand loss and destruction. In many places life is lived with a mingling of grenade-pocked buildings built right next to fresh new homes. It's just a thread that runs through their life - and PTSD has literally touched every home. It's something that I struggle to comprehend, having never lived through a war on my soil. And their history seeps into the present. War affected industry, resulting in a need to import most goods, which translates into businesses paying customs and import taxes, all costs that are passed on to the consumer which results in high prices and a very high cost of living. War causes deep emotional scars resulting in a massively high rate of alcoholism among young and old alike. And yet the Croatian people are resiliant, determined, and very strong. They have fought their way through harsh regimes and strong-armed governments to the freedom that they have today! I admire their strength and determination! They are warm, loving people and their history is fascinating! And if you've never visited this country you are missing out on so much. Croatia is a lovely country, whether we are talking about their rolling, lush, green hills, the flat farmlands of corn and wheat, or their rocky, olive tree lined seasides that boarder the bluest sea you'll ever see! All this is mingled with the past and present that live together as if they were born together. Historic buildings dating back to the Roman Empire - 2nd and 3rd centuries B.C. - stand alongside newly constructed apartment buildings. It is fascinating how past and present have come together in such an incredible way!!



11) What are some of the things you miss over there? Certain foods? Movies? Stores? So. Many. Things. Taco Bell (yes, I do miss Taco Bell) and REAL Mexican food (although, I have learned to make awesome Mexican food from scratch). Walmart - or any inexpensive stores, Starbucks, Crunchy Cheetos, Pop Tarts, avocados year round....or any fruits and veggies out of season year round, for that matter. I would love to have access to Netflix, Craig's List, inexpensive baby gear, and GARAGE SALING!!!!



12) Will you ever move back to America and if not why not? No, there are no plans. I would never ask that of my husband. Making a move like this is literally means to uproot your whole life - your past, present and future - and transplant it into another culture, with another lanugage, and a totally different way of life. It is harder than one would think, and to make such a huge life change, one must be very ready for all of the difficulty that is involved.



13) As a Blogger I am sure you follow other Blogs who is your favorite and why? I think one of my favorite bloggers is Adriel over at The Mommyhood Memos (http://themommyhoodmemos.com/). Her and I have many things in common, and I find myself often reading her blogs and thinking to myself, "She is echoing my thoughts - even before I thought them!!!" She is a gifted writer and I throroughly enjoy reading her posts.



14) Can you tell us how you feel raising a child there and do you think it is better or worse for a child? Raising a child anywhere is a challenge. I think the greatest challenge raising a child here is knowing that one day there will be struggles because of the difference of faith. Without going into much detail, faith here is strongly interwoven into every facet of life, especially their culture and identity. I have watched other children in school face great challenges, and even bullying, because of difference in faith. So, we have a great job ahead of us in preparing our children to face these challenges with grace and strength of character so they do not grow bitter and withdrawn. And yet I know that any child, no matter where they are, will face hardship while growing up. I guess no place on earth is better or worse for raising a child; if the child has a loving and secure home they can live in the worst place imaginable and still come out alright. Every parent these days has a great task in preparing their children for hardships that previous generations have never had to face - rampant immorality, drugs, alcohol, and expectations of a perfect body image - all this combined with the normal challenges we all faced with playground bullies. These are tougher times for kids, and as parents we struggle with preparing them for these and other challenges so that they are not damaged emotionally. It's a daunting task, and I hope and pray that we do our job well!



15) What one item would you share with someone who is thinking of moving to a new Country? Why? First, I'd say, do your homework. Learn about the history and culture of that country. It will go a long way in endearing you to the people. Second, be prepared to humble yourself. You will make language mistakes (even in English-speaking countries, dialect differences are enormous!), you will misunderstand things, and feel pretty stupid sometimes. If you are learning a new language, be prepared to feel like toddlers speak better than you; this will literally challenge all the self-worth you ever had as you struggle to say the most elementary things (like: "I need to use the bathroom" or "I'm hungry"). It's like being born all over again - only as an educated adult. But, be sure to surround yourself with a great support system at home to help encourage you when things get hard. After the "honeymoon" period, you will face some depression and maybe even despair. But, that will pass. If you make it through those times without giving up you will be able to fully embrace every bit of that country as if it were your own! Like a runner, you have to face the "wall" and break through it. A support system will help tremendously - people you can "dump on", during those hard times who will not think less of you for ranting and who will bend a listening ear and then cheer you on to better days. Lastly, I'd encourage those who plan to move to a non-English speaking country to make learning the native language a #1 priority. Learn it and learn it well. Although the local people may speak English as a 2nd laguange, you will find a deeper and more satisfying relationship with them when you learn to speak with them in their laguage. You will earn a deeper respect, and you will also grow to know and understand their culture better through their language. (sorry, that was like 3-4 things, but they are all vitally important)

Friday, July 15, 2011

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Thursday, July 14, 2011

Book Review/Tour~ The spirit of.. Baseball

It is time for a FIRST Wild Card Tour book review! If you wish to join the FIRST blog alliance, just click the button. We are a group of reviewers who tour Christian books. A Wild Card post includes a brief bio of the author and a full chapter from each book toured. The reason it is called a FIRST Wild Card Tour is that you never know if the book will be fiction, non~fiction, for young, or for old...or for somewhere in between! Enjoy your free peek into the book!

You never know when I might play a wild card on you!


Today's Wild Card author and illustrator are:


and their books:

Cross Training Publishing (2008)
and
The Spirit in Sports (2010)
***Special thanks to Audra Jennings, Senior Media Specialist, The B&B Media Group for sending me a review copy.***

ABOUT THE AUTHOR and ILLUSTRATOR:


Kathryn Nixon was born in the small town of Rockingham, NC. She grew up involved in many sports including cheerleading, cross country and dance. After graduating high school, she attended Peace College and North Carolina State University where she received her BA with a major in communications and a minor in journalism. She went on to work as an associate producer for ESPN.

She met Trot Nixon when one of the coaches who recruited him to play baseball at NC State introduced them. They were married, and he was drafted by the Red Sox, where he became a 2004 World Series champion. While her husband was playing ball, Kathryn collaborated with the other wives on two children’s books: Fenway Park from A to Z and Fenway Park 1 2 3.

Her greatest desire is to touch the lives of children with the knowledge and experience of Christ’s love. Her passion is to gather children into the kingdom of God by planting His word in their hearts at an early age. Nixon and her husband, Trot, reside in Wilmington, NC, with their two sons, Chase and Luke.

Ana Boudreau was born in Williamsburg, VA, and grew up with the dream of being an artist and an illustrator. Her grandmother was a professional artist, and she passed down all of her supplies to her granddaughter. She was also involved in cheerleading and gymnastics as a girl, helping her further connect to the Spirit in Sports series.

Boudreau attended the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and graduated with a BA in English literature. She met Kathryn Nixon when she was commissioned to paint murals in the preschool department of Nixon’s church. They struck up a friendship and began meeting to plan a series of books that would attract young children involved in sports. Boudreau treasured the opportunity to co-author children’s books that had the power to instill God’s values in the day-to-day lives of families, including her own.

Boudreau is an artist, muralist and an art teacher at Myrtle Grove Christian School. She has illustrated both The Spirit in Baseball and The Spirit in Football, along with a third book, How Bernie Madoff Saved My Life by Valorie Stackpole. She is married to Mark Boudreau, and they are blessed with three wonderfully athletic girls—Lauren is a cheerleader, Julia is a skater and Katherine is a tennis player. She and her family reside in Wilmington, NC.

Visit the author and illustrator's website.

SHORT BOOK DESCRIPTION:


Sometimes, when we think about little league sports, the first thing that comes to mind are pushy coaches and over-competitive parents. However, there are many positive character qualities that children can develop while playing team sports. Kathryn Nixon and Ana Boudreau help to instill these virtues in their two books, The Spirit in Baseball and The Spirit in Football. Their books are based on the fruits of the Spirit as seen in Galatians 5:22-23, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”


The Spirit in Baseball applies the fruits of the Spirit to each aspect of playing the game of baseball, such as:

I LOVE my teammates. They are my friends. We spend a lot of time in the dugout together!

I am PATIENT and happy to wait until it is my turn to bat.

I do my best to be GOOD to others. I congratulate the other team if they win the game.

Each of the fruits is introduced by a Scripture verse, followed by the application. The colorful illustrations will draw in young readers, and a tiny fruit has been hidden on every page for the children to seek out. The book also includes words of encouragement from Kathryn’s husband, Trot Nixon, a 2004 Boston Red Sox World Series champion. The Spanish translation, El Espiritu en Beisbol, is also available.


The Spirit in Football focuses on the same virtues and format, but applies the fruits of the Spirit to football. Some examples include:

The fans cheered with excitement and JOY as our team scored the first touchdown of the game.

If we are upset about a penalty, instead of acting out in anger, God calls us to react with GENTLENESS and respect.

We must show SELF-CONTROL by not losing our temper when we are tackled aggressively by the other team.

The Spirit in Football includes a forward by Matt Hasselbeck, NFL quarterback for the Seattle Seahawks, encouraging children that “drive and competitiveness should never come before obeying the rules and being a good sport.”

Both books are great gifts for little league teams or any child who participates in sports. The books include a page for autographs, so parents can buy a copy for every team member and the children can sign each other’s books as a keepsake for years to come. The Spirit in Baseball and The Spirit in Football provide a practical way for any parent or coach to apply the fruits of the Spirit in the everyday lives of their children.



Product Details:

The Spirit in Baseball:

List Price: $10.00
Hardcover
Publisher: Cross Training Publishing (2008)
ISBN-10: 1450776256
ISBN-13: 978-1450776257

The Spirit in Football:

List Price: $10.00
Hardcover
Publisher: The Spirit in Sports (2010)
ISBN-10: 0615386695
ISBN-13: 978-0615386690

AND NOW...THE FIRST FEW PAGES (Click on images to see them better):

The Spirit in Baseball:








The Spirit in Football:











Our reviews~
The Spirit of Baseball




This is such a fun book to read.

I liked how it is Christian based.

The illustrations are so perfectly done

as well.

This is a book for people of all ages.

The think I liked the most about it is

it is Christian related and they include

versus for us to refer back to which makes

it nice.

I also like how two ladies wrote a book on

Sports.

I wish when we had played Soccer that I

had a book like this to give to my team mates.

If you have not had the time to check this book

out I wish you would and if you like to watch

trailers then look this one up as I plan too.





The Spirit of Football





Since I read the first book to my son and I

enjoyed it so much I thought I would allow

my husband to read this book and see what

he thought of it as he is not into reading so

much.

Let me tell you he enjoyed it so much that

when he finished it he was asking to read it

which is nice as he does not usually do that.

This book is a great book for anyone of all ages

plus it is a great book for coaches and also

parents to be able to teach there children the

correct way to handle bad situations that could

arise in sports.

One thing I Loved about these books is there

written by two women and you can tell they

Love the Sport and there family.

Please take the time to either read the book

or to check out the trailer.



Glenda, David and Charlie